If you have a job managing others, you instruct, give orders, set deadlines, and discipline when necessary. But my wife and I have found that “work mode” isn’t always helpful in our marriage. The skills and strengths we demonstrate in the workplace aren’t necessarily an asset in our relationship. In fact, they can be a liability. Instructing each other, giving orders, and trying to discipline one another can...
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Think of your marriage as a house, built upon a foundation of words. When we only notice the negative things about our partner – and constantly point those things out – our comments and complaints chip away at that foundation. But when we recognize the good things about our spouse, and speak words of sincere appreciation day by day, we strengthen that foundation. Men need the affirmation and respect of their...
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At the Jacksonville Jaguars, they are. The theory? New head coach, Mike Mularkey says “. . .the happier you are with your wife, the happier you are on the field.” So, in honor of the Jaguars on this NFL kick-off day, here are 4 tips to become a better spouse. First, do a random act of kindness daily. Do the dishes for your spouse. Give your spouse your undivided attention when they get home. Second, know...
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Just as a wrecking ball will eventually bring down a building, some habits will eventually wreck your marriage. You keep score. . . keep secrets. . . or keep talking - without listening. So what can you do to repair the damage and reinforce the relationship? Commit to replacing your old habits with new ones – help your spouse without expecting anything in return, be open with your spouse about everything, and...
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In a report from the National Survey of Families and Households, over 1,000 married adults said they were "unhappily married.” Five years later, the same people were interviewed again. Nearly 80% of the couples who decided to stick it out and stay together considered themselves "happily married" and "much happier.” Of the couples who got divorced, only 19% reported being happy. The moral of the story? If you’re...
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Getting the kids situated in a new school year can be all-consuming. There are new schedules, new activities and new challenges. Just dealing with all of the newness can wear you out. Well, in the middle of the madness it’s easy to push aside spending time with your spouse. So, even though it will take some planning, try to schedule a date night, just the two of you, at least once every couple of weeks. Or,...
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Maybe the last love letter you wrote was when you were dating. Do you remember how your heart raced? And do you remember how much they loved to get them? Now try to remember why you stopped. Well, it’s not too late. Pull out a clean sheet of paper and tell your spouse that you love them for who they are. Praise them for their unique talents, gifts and abilities and tell them what you cherish in your...
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