In 1870, 9,000 people graduated from college in America.  This year, about 3.7 million people will.  As our kids spend more years in school than any previous generation, we have to ask, “Are our kids being educated on the things that matter most?  Education as we know it today—head knowledge—is very, very important.  But what about “heart knowledge?”—things like character and virtues.   Heart knowledge is...

Fall is here. We all know what that means: football season.  And just like players on the field fumble the football, sometimes us Dads can fumble the ball in our relationships with our kids as well.  So what do we do to avoid those fumbles as fathers? First, when you commit to doing something with your child…bike riding, a trip to the park or throwing the ball in the backyard…be sure to put it on your calendar as...

An elephant never forgets.  When they are too small to escape, we train elephants in captivity by shackling their ankles and staking them down.  They try to tug away from their bonds, but eventually learn they can't get loose. That’s when their “elephant memory” takes over.  For the rest of their lives, they remember they can't get away.  Likewise, when someone makes a careless comment to a child, like, “You’re...

It’s not some high-tech gadget you can pick up at a store… it’s a sense of belonging. So how can you instill that in your kids? At home, let your kids know they’re important to you, and to your family. Affirm their positive character traits, encourage their unique gifts, and let them know their thoughts and opinions matter. Then, when you’re out in public, praise them to others – and proudly claim them: “This is...

A lot of parents have a hard time telling the difference.  And that’s a problem.  You’ve seen it…a mom dressed like her teenage daughter.  A dad who offers his teenage son a beer while they watch the game.  When mom or dad becomes a buddy, the child loses out on the most important relationship…that of parent and child.  Your kids have plenty of friends, what they need from you is guidance, love, and boundaries....

Every parent wonders, sooner or later, if the values they are teaching their kids will actually stick with them. Personal experience and visits with hundreds of parents have convinced me that planting certain seeds in your child’s life will strengthen your positive influence on them.  Here are a few of those seeds. First, focus on making memories that will last. Camping, fishing, hiking, biking, family...

Jeff Foxworthy has been making people laugh for years.  But he takes his role as a husband and father very seriously.  So much so that he'd often hire a plane to get back from a late gig so he'd be there to take his daughters to school the next morning.  In the same way, are you doing everything you can make sure that you spend as much time with your family as possible?  It's very important to provide for your...