When it comes to discipline, parents so often equate firmness with harshness. But the two are completely different. Firmness says that a boundary is secure and won’t be crossed without a consequence. But harshness uses angry words and intimidation to intentionally scare a child into submission. So how can you discipline firmly without being harsh? First, show less emotion. This will help your child focus on...
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My wife, Susan, and I believe it’s important for us to invest in the relationship with any young ladies our sons are dating. Here are some ideas to help get you started. First, have her over for dinner. Time around the table is a great relationship builder. Second, have a game night with her and your son. Ask her what her most, or least, favorite games are to play and you’ll learn a lot about her. Games reveal a...
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Growing up is a challenge. And one of the biggest factors that can add to a difficult childhood is bullying. Bullying is a hardship that must not be dismissed as either expected or unimportant. That’s why it’s critical that you understand the signs of bullying. One sign your child might be getting bullied is if they begin faking an illness in the morning. It may be their way of trying to avoid school and bullies....
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My wife, Susan, and I are advocates for interviewing your daughter’s date, but we also see the importance of building a relationship with your son’s dates too. There are several reasons. First, you are showing the girl that your family cares about each other. While it might seem intimidating, she should understand that family comes first. If she’s the right “dating material,” she’ll appreciate that. If she...
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As parents, it is our duty to keep an eye on our kids. That includes looking for any danger signs you might see as they travel through those young years. Here are some warning signs that your child may be headed for trouble and solutions to lead them back on the right road. First, your child may be headed for trouble when they have excessive mood swings. If they’re going from extreme highs to extreme lows, instead...
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According to the British Heart Foundation, the average person spends 19 minutes a day thinking about their regrets. That’s two and a half hours a week. And one of the top regrets people report is not spending enough time with their family. To help you avoid having those parenting regrets, here are some things every parent must know. First, know that small amounts of time add up in your relationship with your...
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It’s no secret that many men anger easily when their buttons are pressed. In most cases, the anger is not productive. So with our kids watching, how can we be careful to avoid blind rage? Here are 3 angry dad scenarios and solutions. First, there are the times when it’s no use crying over spilled milk. When your child accidently messes something up, you have a single moment to either get angry or get calm and...
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