Author Andy Stanley says, “Every parent should teach their child to ask themselves this question: In light of my past experiences, my current circumstances, and my future hopes and dreams, what is the wise thing for me to do?” So let’s break it down. First, past experiences. Have your child look back on their past mistakes and successes and determine what worked and what didn’t. Second, current circumstances. Help them make wise choices based on their current goals. Third, future hopes and dreams. Are they making decisions now that will help or hurt their future career path or marriage plans? Always ask what’s the wise thing to do.

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