My wife, Susan, and I recently kicked around some things wives should stop doing. Here are some of the top ones.  First, stop putting everyone and everything ahead of your husband…especially your kids. Your husband should get your freshest and best, not your leftovers. Second, stop treating him disrespectfully. It deflates him when you constantly question his opinion, abilities and judgment. Third, don’t expect him to be your girlfriend. He is a man and thinks, acts, talks, and processes things differently like a man, not a girl. Read our list of 7 things wives should stop doing.