Think back to your teen years.  It seemed like everyone had their eye on you.  Everything was a big deal.  When things went wrong, it seemed like the sky was falling and the world was coming to an end.  Dealing with disappointment is hard at any age, but especially during those teen years. Here’s how you can help.  Begin by listening first, not talking.  Your teen needs to know first that they are heard.  When you do talk, ask lots of questions to help them think through their disappointment, expectations, and lessons learned.  A good conversation then opens the door for you to offer some ideas, affirmation and advice. 

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