Saving Your Second Marriage Before It Starts
To help your second marriage get off to a stronger start, take note of what the book, Saving Your Second Marriage Before it Starts, says happily married couples have:
Healthy expectations of marriage
A realistic concept of love
A positive attitude and outlook toward life
The ability to communicate their feelings
An understanding and acceptance of gender differences
The ability to make decisions and settle arguments
A common spiritual foundation and goal
Knowledge of what it takes to combine a family
Stepparenting skills
Also examine the beliefs the authors, Les and Leslie Parrot, say are dangerous to marriages:
We expect exactly the same things from marriage
Everything good in our relationship will get better
Everything bad in my life will disappear
Adjustment to married life occurs more quickly in remarriage
My spouse will make me whole












